In His Own Words
About Him
You have to start somewhere so-: I believe that if you see someone on this site that you feel intuitively that you would get on with then send a message - if not I think you are wasting their time and their emotions all for nothing. I know the physical thing is all supposed to be important ( car, wallet, height etc) but after 50 I am not so sure (emotional intelligence must be the winner here)
Sensitive / outdoor type / loves children/ reasonably intelligent/ experienced a lot in my life so far / loves home life
Be happy to meet someone who has children of their own still living with them.
Bit of a computer nut, sailor, Dad, gamer and cook and all round good guy.
About His Ideal Match
I am widowed so I seem to react and have empathy for a potential date who has experienced the same feeling that I have. (I include divorce as well , as people do get bad deals in life and why should they suffer its consequences) But this is not a deal breaker.
Outdoor person would meet my type of lifestyle but again not a deal breaker
Someone who does not suffer with depression and or has it under control - in other words a joyful soul. Likes travelling, kids and has learnt to love life without all the material trappings that go with it.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Kimberley, Northern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") | |
Body Type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Balding | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
46 - 66 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Photography; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Badminton; Canoeing; Fishing; Horse Riding; Rugby; Sailing; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |